“I Have Days When I Just Don’t Want To Do It Anymore.”

Is there trouble in paradise for outspoken television personality and musician Denise Zimba? The now full-time mom and wife recently took to her Instagram to open up about the struggles of motherhood and being a wife.

“To say that I’m exhausted is an understatement. I AM GONE WITH THE DAMN WIND!!” Wrote Denise.

The star, who had her child over a year ago, says that the journey through motherhood hasn’t been an easy one for her. “I had my Leah a year plus and I am still going through it. I finally took the courage to get myself back and do WHAT MAKES ME HAPPY … Talk about sacrifice. Nothing like being a first-time mom and wife, and wanting to be whole again, without the titles …”

Adding that this year hasn’t been a smooth one for her, like many of us, Denise is getting her life back.

“Anyone who knows me, knows I tell it like it is, what you see is what you get. This year has been the hardest for many of us, and the effects of it has yet to crippled us for some time. With life comes challenges, and decisions to follow. Whatever it is you decide, make sure it has pure intentions because the aftermath of that will always fall back on you, one way or another.”

She encouraged all moms to stop putting unnecessary pressure on themselves.

“To moms who have realized that for the most part, this motherhood thing has BEEEEN glamorized, stop being hard on yourself. Even that is overrated. Do what the fuck you need to do to get through these tough days. Thank heavens for milestones – the recharge you will forever need!!”

Even for Denise, she has days when she doesn’t want to do it anymore but she hasn’t let that beat her down.

“I have days when I just don’t want to do it anymore. But somehow the universe has designed specific journeys to allow strength to prevail, so hang on and hang in there.”

She added that all the glamourous stuff she posts on the gram a hardly a reflection of what is really happening in her life.

“When you see a somewhat polished pic I’ve posted, it’s a good day or a scheduled post day.”

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To say that I’m exhausted is an understatement. I AM GONE WITH THE DAMN WIND 😖🤣 !! I had my Leah a year plus and I am still going through it. I finally took the courage to get myself back and do WHAT MAKES ME HAPPY … Talk about sacrifice. Nothing like being a first time mom and wife, and wanting to be whole again, without the titles … Anyone who knows me, knows I tell it like it is, what you see is what you get. This year has been the hardest for many of us, and the effects of it has yet to crippled us for some time. With life comes challenges, and decisions to follow. Whatever it is you decide, make sure it has pure intentions because the aftermath of that will always fall back on you, one way or another. To moms who have realized that for the most part, this motherhood thing has BEEEEN glamorized, stop being hard on yourself. Even that is overrated. Do what the fuck you need to do to get through these tough days. Thank heavens for milestones – the recharge you will forever need 😁🤗!! I have days when I just don’t want to do it anymore. But somehow the universe has designed specific journeys to allow strength to prevail, so hang on and hang in there. When you see a somewhat polished pic I’ve posted, it’s a good day or a scheduled post day. This I call a ‘FUCK IT’ day – with a young filter as a reminder!🤣 #okDenise #behindthemusic #liveyourtruth #africaunite

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