Skeem Saam Star Pebetsi Matlaila Opens Up About Abusi ve Marriage and Near-Death Experience

Renowned Skeem Saam actress Pebetsi Matlaila, recognized for her portrayal of Mokgadi in the SABC 1 educational drama, has bravely shared her harrowing experiences of being in an usive marriage and facing a near-death encounter.In a recent interview on the Gamechangers podcast, Matlaila shed light on the tumultuous chapter of her life, delving into the challenges she confronted during her marriage and the profound impact it had on her mental health.

Matlaila disclosed that her union with her former husband lasted less than a year, and even before tying the knot, she noticed troubling signs. She revealed, “We were officially married for nine months, but our relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend only lasted about three months.

Unfortunately, I recognized the red flags before the marriage. He struggled with addiction, and when he was under the influence of alcohol, he became abusive. Contrary to what people may think, my marriage wasn’t a fairytale gone wrong; it was dark from the very beginning.”

The Skeem Saam star went on to share the challenging period when she decided to walk away from the marriage while still pregnant with her lastborn child. Financial difficulties, coupled with the absence of employment, led to depression. Matlaila expressed gratitude for her mother’s support but admitted to grappling with suicidal thoughts.

“My life was such a mess that I remember thinking if I could find a painless way to end my children’s lives and then take my own, they wouldn’t have to endure this. I felt like a failure as a mom, like I had ruined my life to the point of having nothing left to live for. I spoke to my therapist, expressing my fear of myself and the potential harm I might cause to my kids because I had made such a mess of my life.”Matlaila also recounted a critical moment during childbirth when she “died” for three minutes due to blood pressure complications. Reflecting on the incident, she shared, “I couldn’t breathe, and I pulled the scrubs of the nurse next to me. It was lights out for me. I wasn’t even aware that I was dead until my mom narrated the story of what happened.”

Through her candid revelations, Pebetsi Matlaila aims to raise awareness about the harsh realities of abusive relationships and the profound impact they can have on mental health, encouraging others to seek help and support.

South African musician, actor and director, Timmy Kwebulana has passed after a short illness on Thursday, 19 September.

The Kwebulana family confirmed the sad news in a statement and requested some time to gather before further details regarding the funeral and memorial details are shared.

“We give thanks for his life and all his contribution to us as a family, and to the arts and entertainment industry for almost 6 decades.

May his legacy continue to inspire us and those who are still to come.

We acknowledge that there will be lots of heartfelt messages of condolences towards the family and relatives. We appreciate them so much, however, we do request, especially the media and our industry colleagues, that the family is given some time to gather and organize logistics and way forward.”

Timmy Kwebulana is known for his supporting roles in television shows such as Fishy Feshuns and Mazinyo Dot Q.

He played the role of Bra Vic Tau, the founder of Shooting Stars F.C, in the e.tv drama series Shooting Stars, from 2007-2010.

Timmy also guest starred in an episode of the Mzansi Magic sitcom Chandies, in 2012.

South African celebrities before fame and Instagram filters

Modern camera technology and Instagram filters have made things so much easier for many of our beloved celebrities to look their best.

We’ve put together a list of what some of your favorite celebrities looked like before 2021. Can you see the transformation?
Cassper Nyovest

Dj Zinhle

Minnie Dlamini

Bonang Matheba

Big Zulu

Pearl Modiadie

Black Coffee

Zodwa Wabantu
Khanyi Mbau
Kelly Khumalo
Thembi Seete

No glow? Don’t worry you’re just not rich yet!

We all have a past and from time to time, it doesn’t hurt to take a trip down memory lane and reflect on your humble beginnings. Boity Thulo, Minnie Dlamini, DJ Zinhle, Riky Rick, Cassper Nyovest, Lerato Kganyago, Bonang Matheba, Nomzamo Mbatha, AKA as well Khanyi Mbau didn’t always look as fresh as they do now, in this feature we take a look at some of some of South Africa’s most followed celebrities and their transformation journeys.

Penny Ntuli is from Umlazi, which is located in Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa. The 26-year-old grew up dreaming of working for a legendary radio station.

Career

She joined the regional commercial radio station Gagasi FM on May 1, 2022. Prior to this position, she worked for the community radio station Inanada FM.

Ntuli has collaborated with legends such as Alex Mthiyane and Felix Hlophe. Because she enjoys what she does, being a disc jockey does not feel like a job. It has given her the opportunity to collaborate with industry legeShe had hoped to work for a major radio station for many years, but this is a dream come true. So, for the time being, future aspirations can be put on hold.

She previously worked for other community radio stations such as Durban Youth Radio and Vibe FM before joining Gagasi FM.

Penny is the weekend host of Gagasi FM’s Ziyakhala show.

Personal

Penny Ntuli is tight-lipped about her spouse and family. She is a young lady who does not drink alcohol, despite having friends who do. She associates with folks who drink since she works in promotions.

The South African media personality Gogo Skhotheni has left her fans stunned after she shows off her new look. Gogo Skhotheni is showing her new look every week. The reality TV show have taken to her social media page where she shows her fans her new weave. She recently shared her latest pictures where she was seen wearing stunned red dress. Her fans and followers has been loving her new look and her new body transformation.

Gogo Skhotheni is popular, known from her reality TV show called “Gogo Skhotheni “. Her real name is Tumi Motsoeneng, and she has been married to Monde Shange, and they have three children together. Gogo Skhotheni is a sangoma, reality TV star, businesswoman and also a social media influencer. Skhotheni have recently moved to Sandton with her husband, who is also a businessman and social media influencer.

The reality TV star became popular when she revealed in her show that her ancestor want her to marry two husbands. Apparently it’s been months and we have not seen her other husband. Skhotheni has been sharing pictures of herself together with her husband, Monde except her second alleged husband.

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Thuso Mbedu is popularly regarded as one of the most extraordinarily stylish lady in South Africa known for her astonishing outfits. She recently took to her social media took her beautiful photographs matching with her big machine. Green looks good on her.

She is flawless female with large personalities en route to make her existence more effective. She has established to us that she is industrious girl who focussed on greatness. She is a sizzling girl who has an amazing taste of designs and style.

Thuso Nokwanda Mbedu is prevalently perceived South African Entertainer who was delivered into the world in Pelham a precint of Pietermaritzburg, Kwazulu-Natal Province. She was born and raised by her grandmother as she is used to be legitimate watchwoman after the loss of life of her parents at an early age. She is clever and independent woman who has enlisted with University of Witswatersrand to entire Honours Degree in Physical Theatre and Performing Arts Management.

She is sizzling lady who is destined for increased components on our screens. She is very enthusiastic person who is whole of force and uniqueness. She has a tremendous mind-set and her smile is simply something out there would kill for. She is delightful and tremendous female with a dark-skinned African woman who embraces her lovely skin tone when all of us stored on altering theirs. She has made a preference decision for herself withiside the close to destiny. She is additionally making heavy weight worldwide with her performance. She is multi-award winning has been feautured in Is’thunzi and portrayed Kitso Medupi on Scandal.

She appeared on American Tv sequence and creating leisure history. Her terrific overall performance and contribution to acting occupation has earned her a focus that she bought the Dstv viewers Choice Awardd for fine actress and forty five global Emmy Awards for the great actress.

Zikhona Sodlaka is a South African actress best known for her starring roles in television series such as Shooting Stars, Rhythm City, Soul City, Intsika and Montana. Sodlaka once got a nominated for the South African Film and Television Awards.She was born and bred in Mthatha in the Eastern Cape, South Africa. Her date of birth is recorded as 07th of June 1985,she is currently at the age of 37 as of November 2022.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 
On her latest post on social media Zikhona left instagram in awe with her recent pictures looking amazing. The photos were uploaded with the following caption

” A lot of the times, we don’t want to tell the stories of the ones at the bottom. Of the ones less favourite. Of the ones easy to hate. It’s not easy to let go of the ego as an artist yet that’s what the job requires. That I leave myself out of it and jump into the roles less desires…. And let people feel the discomfort of seeing themselves….

What a painful experience it has been playing someone so judged. So damn imperfect and not shy about it.

Watching people call her names to my face has been a lifetime lesson I hope I never forget.

Yet I envy her, I envy how proud of herself she is. How she isn’t shy to play ALLLLLL her colours out loud. How deeeeeep she loves ☺️

It’s brave for a woman to be like this. To say yes in the face of adversity… careful to throw stones bantase, 😊

Mandisa Madubela…imatha faka. Udemet. Uphuma silwe.

Xhosa hun from Qheberha.

Top 8 SA actors who are exceptionally good at english

South Africa is a wonderfully diverse country, with a multitude of languages spoken. However, English serves as the common language that bridges communication between the various tribes. Lately, English has been subject to misuse and wrongly regarded as a gauge of intelligence and a marker of talent, a narrative that is simply not true. In addition to their remarkable talent in their respective crafts, these South African actors possess an impressive command of the English language.

NOTE: The top 7 ‘no particular order’
1. Molefi ‘Wallet’ Monaisa
Molefi Monaisa, the talented South African actor, effortlessly brings the character of Wallet to life on the captivating SABC1 drama Skeem Saam. The 52-year-old was born in Potchefstroom, a charming town in the North West province.Immediately after graduating from high school, he decided to pursue his passion for the performing arts by enrolling in the prestigious Dramatic Arts programme at the Method Actors Centre in Pretoria.

Wallet had always aspired to become a doctor, but unfortunately, his dreams were crushed when his parents faced financial difficulties that prevented him from attending university. Wallet is widely recognised for his exceptional talent as a poet, as well as his impressive fluency and accent in English.

2. Hungani Ndlovu
Hungani Ndlovu, the 29-year-old actor, has gained popularity for his portrayal of Romeo Medupe on the hit show Scandal. The actor hails from Nelspruit in the beautiful Mpumalanga. With his impeccable English accent and fluency, it’s clear that the young actor must have spent a good three years honing his skills in the bustling cities of Los Angeles and New York.

There’s been quite a buzz going around about Hungani snagging a role in the popular American comedy-drama series Blackish. It seems like our talented star is making moves across the pond!3. Masasa Mbangeni
Masasa, a South African actress hailing from Port Elizabeth, made the bold move to Johannesburg to pursue her passion for dramatic arts and launch her acting career. She was fortunate enough to be awarded the Mandela Rhodes scholarship, which allowed her to pursue a Bachelor of Arts and Dramatic Arts degree at Wits.

Her focus was on performing and directing, which was a perfect fit for her creative talents. Masasa gained recognition for her portrayal of Thandeka on the hit TV show Scandal. Despite her Xhosa roots, her English accent is absolutely remarkable. She effortlessly portrays the character of Kwanele Losi in the Legacy SA drama series.

4. Siyabonga Xaba
Siyabonga’s acting career began at a young age, and his command of the English language has always been exceptional. This up-and-coming actor graduated from Packtown Boys High and is currently captivating audiences with his portrayal of Langa on Gomora Mzansi.

5. Natasha Thahane
The 28-year-old actress successfully balanced her studies at the New York Film Academy with her pursuit of a thriving acting career. Prior to her rise to fame, she also dedicated herself to academic excellence at the University of Witwatersrand in South Africa, where she earned a degree in Accounting.

Having hailed from Orlando East Soweto, she has graced the screens of numerous drama series, including the popular Mzansi Magic show, The Queen, and the well-known SABC1 series, Skeem Saam, just to name a couple. Natasha Thahane’s impressive intellect and mastery of the English language may be attributed to her esteemed lineage as the granddaughter of Archbishop Desmond Tutu.

6. Presley Chweneyagae
Famous for his role in the award-winning movie Tsotsi, Presley Chweneyagae is a true polyglot, effortlessly speaking nine different languages. He’s currently gracing the screens of the 1Magic telenovela The River, portraying the character Thuso ‘Cobra’ Mokoena. Chweneyagae had the pleasure of attending the esteemed Tshwane University of Technology.

7. Loyiso Macdonald
Loyiso Macdonald, born on September 7, 1986, has gained recognition for his performances in the well-received series The Queen, 3 Way Junction, and Happy Family. He attended Pinetown Boys’ High School.

Prior to embarking on his acting career, he had the experience of working in both the banking industry and a bustling telecommunications Call Centre. Nevertheless, lacking any sense of fulfilment in his position, he decided to resign in 2007.

Soon enough, he found himself receiving invitations to showcase his talents in numerous stage productions. Afterwards, he made his way onto the Mzansi Magic show The Queen, captivating audiences and leaving a lasting impression on South African television.

8. Cebolenkosi Mthembu
Cebolenkosi Mthembu is a man who possesses an impressive array of talents. Known for his portrayal of detective Nyawo on Uzalo, he has amassed a dedicated fan base. In addition to his many talents, he also dabbles in various fields, such as electrical technician, singer, radio personality, and athlete. Guess what? He actually taught mathematics to students in grades 10, 11, and 12!

As for his education, he attended Shayina High School. Following his high school graduation, he enrolled at the Mangosuthu University of Technology. During his time at the university from 1995 to 1998, he managed to earn himself a National Diploma in Electrical Engineering. Quite an impressive feat!

Coming up on Uzalo this week
Monday 16 September 2024
Episode 143
Hlelo’s actions have dire consequences for her and others. Nosipho throws her weight around in the prison. Screwdriver and Nomathemba hit a new low in their relationship and Mondli is disheartened when he realises the station has moved on without him.
Tuesday 17 September 2024
Episode 144

Nkunzi cannot hide his embarrassment of doing Ballroom dancing. Nosipho realises she has nothing waiting for her outside prison walls. Mondli demands his office back from Lilly.
Wednesday 18 September 2024
Episode 145
Geja is nowhere to be found. Screwdriver assumes the worst when he finds Sakhile and Nomathemba alone in the tent.
Thursday 19 September 2024
Episode 146
Nosipho is reminded of how prison is her ‘home’. Nkunzi invites Izinsizwa to the ballroom competition. Screwdriver will do what it takes to get to the truth about Nomathemba and Sakhile’s relationship. Nokuthula realises coming to Ndabezitha about Geja may have been a big mistake.
Friday 20 September 2024
Episode 147
Phefeni worries that Nkunzi has alienated them from their people back in eNdlende. Screwdriver’s quest to finding

Renowned South African actress Duduzile Ngcobo is set to grace the screens of eTV’s popular drama series *House of Zwide*. Beginning September 16, 2024, Ngcobo will portray the character of Soka’s grandmother (Gogo), bringing a new dynamic to the storyline.

Her entrance promises a dramatic shift in the series, as her character arrives unexpectedly at her grandson Soka’s apartment, only to be confronted with the presence of his girlfriend, Mampho. Gogo Soka’s immediate reaction is filled with tension, as she demands to know where her grandson is. However, the situation intensifies when she begins to question Soka’s intentions with Mampho. In a scene sure to captivate audiences, Gogo directly asks if Soka is planning to marry Mampho or if the two are simply living together without commitment.

This upcoming storyline is expected to explore the clash of cultures and generational values, with Gogo Soka’s traditional beliefs in marriage and commitment at odds with Soka’s modern relationship. Viewers are left wondering how Soka will handle his grandmother’s demands. Will he stand firm in his choices, or will the pressure from his Gogo force him to reconsider his relationship with Mampho?

### A Seasoned Career

Duduzile Ngcobo’s appearance in *House of Zwide* adds another impressive role to her illustrious career, which spans over two decades. Although she began her professional acting journey later in life, at the age of 49, Ngcobo quickly proved her versatility and talent. Her first notable role came in the Mzansi Magic series *Quantum of Terror*. From there, her career blossomed, with her first lead role in the soapie *Isithembiso* marking a significant milestone in her acting journey.

Ngcobo’s portfolio includes a range of prominent roles in well-known South African productions. She has appeared in the drama *Ikhaya* (Season 2), *Greed and Desire*, and notably as “Ma-Mbatha” in the soap opera *Muvhango*. In addition, she has starred in the
television series *Scam*, as well as

TV movies like *Umqhele* and *Umdalo Wempilo*. Her versatility was further demonstrated through her roles in Mzansi Magic films such as *Umdalo Wempilo* and *Uthando Lwethu*.

In 2019, Ngcobo took on the role of “Mayor” in the DSTV series *EHostela*, a performance that showcased her depth as an actress. A year later, in 2020, she joined the cast of the eTV medical telenovela *Durban Gen*, playing the lead character, Dr. Qwabe. This role solidified her reputation as a prominent figure in the South African television industry.

Beyond her roles in film and television, Ngcobo has also made her mark in advertising, appearing in commercials for brands such as Dettol, ABSA, DSTV, MTN, Tastic, and FN.

### A Continued Presence on South African Screens

Ngcobo’s return to the small screen in *House of Zwide* comes after her notable stint on the soapie *Uzalo* in 2021, where she reprised her previous role. In addition to her acting career, Ngcobo has served as the national coordinator for the National Union of Mineworkers’ HIV/AIDS desk in South Africa, highlighting her commitment to social causes alongside her passion for performing.

With her upcoming role in *House of Zwide*, fans are eager to see how Duduzile Ngcobo’s Gogo will shake things up in the already tense dynamics between Soka and Mampho. Prepare for a clash of tradition and modernity, as *House of Zwide* continues to keep audiences hooked.