Petronella Tshuma shares “hard truth” about being a single mom
Mom-of-two Petronella Tshuma says the past year has been life-changing for her. The ‘Rhythm City‘ actress says she suffered a breakdown after a difficult period.
“Nearly a year ago Camagu’s dad and I split up. Was that ever the plan? Of course not. So here I am mother to two beautiful boys both with different fathers.
“Who would ever want to be with me again? I’m used goods? I must have been the problem right? My Lobola price will probably cost pocket change,” she wrote on Instagram.
Petronella says the situation got so bad that at one point, she thought she might need therapy.
“I had such a breakdown at work, I could not act. Lines would not stick. But here I am, single mum with two kids that I need to provide for. Rhythm City my absolutely amazing family were understanding. Gave me time and the greatest support. Offered and would pay for therapy. I didn’t go. Because I then got news the show was being canceled. I remember saying to my Cast members “how will I look after my children?The actress shot her last scenes for ‘Rhythm City’ in May. Petronella played Pearl Genaro on the show, which will air its last episode in July.
The role earned her a ‘Best Actress’ award at the 2021 SAFTAs.
Petronella is celebrating a big career milestone this year. She has been working as a professional actress for 10 years.
“In 2011, I was 21 years old, I auditioned for ‘Class Act’ in front of Rapulana Seiphemo, James Ncobo and Moonyeenn Lee; Moon asked me “what else are you good at?” I responded and said, “All I’m good at, is being a mum.” She says being a mom is a gift.
“My children are the only people on this earth that have witnessed all my colours. The good and the bad. The beautiful and the ugly. And yet, for some reason I am the world and more to them.
“I’m continuously finding myself. That beautiful little girl I didn’t know existed. I filled everyone else’s cups including the characters I would play and have nothing left to give myself. Self-work is not for the fainted-hearted. It’s gritty but rewarding… I’m with you, Mamas. God is with and for us.”